Thanks, Clem. Now I need to gear up to talk with them about getting home delivered meals. They do NOT need to be trying to cook or worry about what is going to be cooked. My sister can fend for herself.
They're going to give me a hard time about it - the cost, etc. (there is a "suggested donation" per meal and nobody is denied due to inability to pay - I'm going to have all that paperwork sent to me and I'll take care of it) - it's no more expensive than buying groceries and in some cases, medicare will pay.
Their other option is to have my sister cook for them and complain about it the whole time. I can only offer up so many options - they're going to have to pick one.