Just to add to the fun, MIL has been on hospice for 7 months, part of hospice is suppose to be 5 days of respice (SP) for the care giver.icfrugal1 wrote: ↑Tue May 25, 2021 1:50 pmthe other day, I wasn't moving, waiting for a light to change, and a car "side swiped" me GGGGRRRR I did safely follow them, but I lost them.
Luckily, it's just a paint exchange and a crease in the SUV.
I was afraid that the back hatch was hit, I need that for DH's walker.
So, my 2014 SUV will be ok, I'm not going to fix it..
In DH's family news, MIL slipped off of the bed the other night, (middle of the night, MIL sat on the bed and slipped off) they had to call 911 for a lift assist. MIL was screaming that both of her legs and her hip was broken (not) MIl insisted on going to the hospital, she was back in a couple of hours . no rest for SIL
So SIL has been with MIL 24/7 for over 3 years, MIL gets worse by the day.MIL in a home or some help, to get help 3 days a week it would take all of MIL's monthly income, so the two brothers that live there would have to pay all of the house bills.
The BIL, who has lived there for over 20 years and only pays $200 a month, (Other BIL and his girl friend pay $1200 a month) thinks that if they do hire someone, then SIL should start paying rent !!! WHAT !!!????? Good grief !!!
SIL is trying , (since MIL has had her shot) to reach the social worker to arrange for it.
Turns out that the hospice nurse told SW to NOT give SIL the resice care !!! WHAT ????
I hope that SIL reports the nurse.
SIL would like the bottom side rails for MIL's hospital bed, but may have trouble getting them, GGGRRR they need a Dr order because you are not allowed to restrain people.
SIL is worked about MIL getting hurt. SIL is doing a great job., but it's